The weather was beautiful today, and I found myself spending a lot of time gazing out the window wishing I was climbing hills or traveling the countryside. My classes weren’t too tough, and I had a new lesson for the first years that went really well. It is a lot more about fun and games since they are studying for their midterms that are coming up soon.
During one class we were doing a drawing exercise, and one student drew me. He was actually a pretty good artist – he captured my slightly crossed eyes and five o’clock shadow perfectly. He also drew a picture of a samurai running someone through with a sword, with lots of blood. It’s an interesting contrast.
After school I lounged around the teacher’s office, helping Mr. Hayashi with some English projects that he is working on. Finally around five o’clock Mr. Kimura, Mr. Hayashi and I jumped into Mr. Hayashi’s car and took off. We had one of the new teachers, Ms. Mori, following us to park her car at Mr. Hayashi’s house. From his house we just walked over to the restaurant.
Ms. Mori has a silver Mazda (called Matsuda here in Japan) Miata. It’s a two seat sports car and it’s pretty cool. We were walking to the restaurant and I mentioned to Ms. Mori that I liked her car. She smiled and said, “Just the car? How about the driver?”.
Huh?
While I stammered and struggled to recover my composure, Mr. Hayashi chimed in and said that it’s a two seat so there’s room for one more person in there. They laughed together and Ms. Mori just kind of kept walking and didn’t say anything else.
What a weird situation. I’m not sure if there was something planned there, or complementing someone’s car is more serious in Japan than it is back home… I was a bit flustered. I have enough problems at school with Ms. Shigata – I don’t need to be chased around by someone else.
Little did I know that this wasn’t the only trick up Mr. Hayashi’s sleeve that night We got to the restaurant, the same one that I visited on my birthday. The menu was basically the same, and again it was all you can drink for 90 minutes, which was very nice. I had three big beers and three glasses of red wine with my meal. I sat next to the vice-principal for a bit, who didn’t drink much but did enjoy speaking English with me. Ms. Mori sat across from me and talked to me a bit more during the evening but didn’t bring up anything else dramatic.
Mr. Hayashi pulled me aside and told me that he is planning a BBQ during the midterm examination period. He wanted to know if I thought one of the new office workers was particularly attractive. I knew where this was going, but I was stuck. I tried the most neutral answer I could think of – “She seems like a nice person”. Mr. Hayashi said that he will invite her to the BBQ – he seems determined to get me involved with somebody, and lately his efforts have stepped up.
Finally around nice o’clock we all staggered out onto the street in Kakogawa. One of our school’s third year students was unlucky enough to be outside on her bike, and so all the teachers enjoyed the chance to chat with her while buzzing. I talked with her mom in Japanese and managed to fake my way through half the conversation.
Mr. Kimura had said that he was going to take the train home and walk back with me – we would get off at the same station. By the time everyone was finished talking with the student, he was gone. I was saying “Where’s Mr. Komuri?”, accidentally switching his name for Mr. Kimura’s. This all you can drink stuff is pretty hardcore.
Mr. Maeda wanted to give me a ride to the station – he had been drinking but his wife was waiting to pick him up. At first I said that I would take the train and not to worry, but he insisted, and dragged me over to the car. I jumped in the car and met his wife and three children, and the look of shock on their faces when I hopped in was just perfect.
His wife had a big smile and a great sense of humor, and took the whole thing in stride. I introduced myself, and the kids all sat there with their mouths wide open. They insisted on driving me home, but when we got close they said they wanted to go to a family restaurant near my place. One cool thing about their van was that when they were backing up the GPS screen turned into a video showing what was behind the car as it backed up. The outline of the van was laid over the top of the video, so she just backed up looking at the screen and didn’t even look over her shoulder. Wow.
We all went inside and ordered some snacks and drinks. I had a non-alcoholic beer, and we sat and chatted. The kids were very shy. The son hid behind his menu, and when his mom took the menu away, he sat there with his eyes closed and a big grin on his face.
After about half an hour, they insisted on driving me to my doorstep, even though it was just a short walk. They were both genuinely happy to have been able to spend time with me outside of school. Being a foreigner in Japan gives you the chance to make a lot of people very happy – they want to meet new people and whenever you spend time with someone, they will probably remember it for a long time afterwards.