Books: The Enchanted April by Elizabeth von Arnim

This book was sort of a historical comfort novel, set mostly in England and Italy. I enjoyed the story – and it was cleverly set up so that I wasn’t expecting how things turned out.

Some of the situations were pretty far-fetched, but most of the comfort and joy of this novel was derived from the simple comforts of taking a break from your usual routine. In the end the story is about love, and how and when it blooms and how important it is not to let it wither.

The book was pretty old, so I got some new vocabulary from it. One surprise was when two characters were described as “making love” but at that time it simply meant they were treating each other in a loving way.

I’m not sure where I got this book recommendation from, but it was an entertaining (and rather short) read.

Next I am reading Babylonia by Costanza Casati.

Books: The Emperor of Gladness by Ocean Vuong

I seem to really be into prose written by poets – they can make the mundane world sound beautiful. This book was recommended by Oprah for her book club, and so I approached it with a little circumspection. It contains a pretty bleak portrait of American life, at least in this New England town, and the author really nails down some of the flaws in what so many people call “The Greatest Country in the World”.

While reading I sort of inwardly groaned when introduced to a cast of outwardly goofy characters, but for some reason this time they didn’t stray into campy. I think the reason might be that everyone seems so genuine – despite their quirks they are good people trying hard in tough circumstances.

I liked how to book slowly revealed the plot and I also noticed that the pop culture references seemed to be right in my wheelhouse. The book was funny, sad, wise and definitely worth reading.

Next I am reading The Enchanted April by Elizabeth von Arnim.

Books: My Brilliant Friend by Elena Ferrante

I have read a few books set in Italy, and this one does a great job of painting a picture of small town in Naples, back in the 1950’s. The book is the first in a series of four, written by a famous Italian author and translated into English. The translation felt natural to me, a little too modern sometimes, but easy enough to read.

The story is focused on the friendship between two girls who grow up together and take different paths through life. Each inspires the other, and we watch them navigate life as best they can while (unknowingly) depending on each other.

In these days women were not expected to go beyond elementary school, and the level of toxic masculinity portrayed in these pages was shocking and hopefully exaggerated fiction. Most of the book was told in the way that gossip is spread from person to person – so I sometimes felt a little dirty reading these stories.

Although the writing was well done and the story was interesting enough, I didn’t feel like I identified with any of the characters – and sometimes was frustrated with the main characters’ self-centered outlook. I know that this is the viewpoint of a young girl/woman but I don’t know if I can stick through another three books to see how it turns out.

Next I am reading The Emperor of Gladness by Ocean Vuong.

Books: The Farthest Shore by Ursula K. Le Guin

As usual some good storytelling in this one – the heroes journey is mapped out, there are some compelling characters introduced, and a lot more involving dragons. Nice!

Something was missing here for me – after the delicious lonesomeness of the previous book’s setting and main character, this one felt sort of like a shadow of Lord of the Rings. At the very beginning I felt like the author had telegraphed the whole story – there aren’t any twists along the way.

A lot of the story goes into the development of a new character, and it seemed rushed, oversimplified (and a little preachy). Maybe this book is targeted at younger readers, but I felt like after the second book that it was leaning towards a more mature audience.

One highlight for me was the interlude of the character’s stay with the people living on the open ocean. I would have loved a book concentrated on their migratory story and how they lived their lives in isolation from the rest of Earthsea.

This book is not the end of the series, but I feel like it is a good place for me to stop reading. I’m not saying I’ll never continue it, but I feel like my curiosity has been satisfied.

The next book that I am reading is called My Brilliant Friend by Elena Ferrante.

Books: The Winged Histories by Sofia Samatar

I enjoyed very much this author’s book A Stranger in Olondria – it was written in such a unique style. This newer book is written in much the same style, but it imagines a much deeper history of Olondria, and has the courage to let you figure most things out on your own.

Once again I felt like I was reading the descriptions of a dream. Characters and scenes appear and pass, timelines suddenly jump forward and back, and important background information doesn’t appear until nearly the end of the novel. Side characters become main characters and vice versa – it can be a lot to take in. But the author doesn’t really hold your hand through it – and I’m sure some people will be turned off by this. But the confusion was worth it to me, and this book would especially benefit from a re-read. My guess is that the author is counting on it.

I loved the details in the writing – almost as if each sentence was a drifting image – and it hard to imagine someone sitting down to write a novel of this length and all the effort it would take to maintain this level of quality writing. It was a long book, and a little more judicious editing might have made it less confusing and more impactful to even more readers.

Without giving things away I would say that I liked the level of fantasy in this novel. Just how much magic there is in this world is a carefully guarded secret – while reading we don’t know what might be real, what could be “magic” and what is hearsay and gossip. It was skillfully done and so I can’t really go into it much here.

It was an excellent book and I hope to come back to it down the road for a re-read to see if I get more out of it. Next I am reading The Farthest Shore by Ursula K. Le Guin.

Books: Goodbye to Clocks Ticking by Joseph Monninger

This book is all about dying – learning about when it might happen, and seeing how that changes your perspective and priorities.

The author was a writer as well as a teacher, and having just retired after teaching for forty years he gets a terminal cancer diagnosis. This book is a way for him to process that, and also a way for other people to understand what he is going through and to learn from his experience.

I thought the information about how he felt and how he processed this abrupt change was useful. Like he said, nobody knows how they will react until it happens to them. But watching him go through stages, make mistakes, and then learn from them made it worth reading the book.

The book felt like it was a message to the family he was leaving behind, and sort of a capstone to his life and experiences. While this is admirable and certainly helpful to him and his relatives, I felt a little like reading someone’s private letters – especially referencing events or histories that I was unfamiliar with.

I think this book will mean a lot to people with cancer and to their loved ones. Hopefully I won’t be coming back to this book as a reference in the future…

Next I am re-reading 11/22/63 by Stephen King.

Books: The Backyard Bird Chronicles by Amy Tan

This was a completely new topic for me. For some reason I’ve heard a lot about bird watching recently – it seems that now that the number of species has declined people are interested in seeing what is left. Or maybe they just want to feel closer to nature.

Amy Tan has written fiction that has done quite well but I am not so interested in the themes she focuses on (identity, sisterhood, Chinese-American culture) so this was my first time to read anything of hers.

I liked her sense of humor throughout the book – she was writing this through the pandemic and clearly bird watching helped her cope. I was envious of all the free time that she had for this – a beautiful home with a big yard and nothing to do but monitor the birds all day. She also did some beautiful illustrations – after reading the foreword and preface I thought we’d get childish renditions but in fact they were really good. I guess it is a case of underselling in advance to manage expectations.

Having said that, the book didn’t really resonate with me. Probably because I’ve never done this activity, but also because bird watching is a localized activity – birds seen in her backyard will be completely different from my backyard. I was learning the incredibly detailed behavior patterns of birds that I will likely never see for myself. Maybe people living in the Bay Area will get more of this book.

Next I am reading Goodbye to Clocks Ticking by Joseph Monninger.

Books: The Minotaur at Calle Lanza by Zito Madu

Hmm, this book was original! I picked it up expecting a book on travel, but while it shared some similarities to the genre it was more about the author and his fraught relationship with his father.

I suppose that traveling alone allows a great deal of time for introspection. Add to that the experience of staying in Venice during the lockdowns of COVID – it makes for a spooky time. The author’s explorations of the city are light on history and more about how he experiences them. He doesn’t really seem to capture the vibe of the city (at least not the Venice that I visited) but I think that was not his intention.

It is a very creative book, especially a passage towards the end that was really well-written and surreal. It was at its best when it was considering deeper issues: identity, guilt and the power of a grudge.

However I felt that author seemed oddly oversensitive to the people around him – he admits to having these issues – and sort of blames it on his upbringing and the uncomfortable position his racial identity places him. Some of his behavior struck me as odd – but not out of the ordinary for someone with an artistic bent.

It was a short, unusual book but I enjoyed the experience of peeking into the mind of a Minotaur. Next I am reading The Backyard Bird Chronicles by Amy Tan.

Books: The Haves and the Have-Yachts by Evan Osnos

This book examines the people at the top of the financial pyramid in the United States, and given the widen gap between them and everyone else I thought it would be a good idea to see what their lifestyle is like. This book isn’t a gushing Lifestyles of the Rich and Famous sort of book, but one that looks at how and why this phenomenon is happening.

It is extremely well-reported – the author is a Pulitzer Prize winner twice over – with cultural insights that made me feel (as an American living in another country) like a member of a completely different species. The trends that have happened recently in wealth consolidation are disturbing. We shouldn’t look away.

Over the years my relationship with money has shifted from “get as much as you can” to “have as much as you need” – and I’ve found that I don’t need all that much to have a lifestyle that I am happy with. But reading about some of the people in this book was eye opening – they are living in a completely different world.

My only criticism on this book is that sometimes it felt like the tying together of these separate essays was a little arbitrary, but taken individually it was a pleasure to see a real investigative reporter at work.

Next I am reading The Minotaur at Calle Lanza by Zito Madu.

Books: The Tombs of Atuan by Ursula K. LeGuin

The second book in this series was slightly different from the first, but exquisitely well-written and benefits from a flipping of perspective for the main characters.

Something about the setting of this one felt like it takes place at the end of the world, and the spooky locations were great – especially the completely dark underground labyrinth. But even the descriptions of the empty plains and mountains really made them come alive for me.

I also liked how the book did not devolve into any kind of romance between the two main characters – it seems like it would be likely to happen in more modern novels.

The only thing that I didn’t like about the book was the length – I finished it in just under two hours. I wanted to read more about this place and setting that the author dreamt up.

Next I am reading The Haves and the Have-Yachts by Evan Osnos.

Books: The Maid’s Secret by Nita Prose

This is the third book in a series featuring the main character Molly, the maid with a social disorder that seems to always attract trouble. The first two books were excellent, and I also enjoyed this third book, which seems to wrap up the story of Molly and her grandmother, who raised her.

The story is cute – cozy and full of backstory on Molly’s grandmother’s mysterious background. The book is written half as flashbacks as Molly reads her grandmother’s diary, and half as another mystery that Molly needs to solve at the Grand Regency hotel where she works. One of my knocks on this book is that we give over half the book to grandma, so that means half as much of Molly who is one of the main reasons I like the series. More Molly, less Gran!

In the previous book that I read (Tartufo) there are many wacky eccentric characters – so many that it felt like slapstick sometimes. This book also has some slightly off characters played for laughs, but in a much more polished fashion, and the humor is more clever here. There were quite a few times I laughed out loud, which is always a good sign.

The story and the plot are tied up a little too perfectly, which I guess is part of what makes the story cozy. It was a fitting end to the series, but I get the feeling the author may continue it judging by the positive reaction she is getting from Molly.

Next I am reading The Tombs of Atuan by Ursula K. LeGuin.

Books: Tartufo by Kira Jane Buxton

This book tells the story of what the discovery of the world’s largest truffle does to the fortunes of a small village in Italy. The story is cleverly plotted, and I guess if I had to categorize the book it would be a comedy-mystery.

The way the plot develops is really well done – we are wondering what people’s motives really are, and what will happen when and if the truffle changes the situation. Unfortunately the book is full of “eccentric” characters – being absolutely goofy in the service of humor. There were some funny moments but it felt to me like the author was trying a little too hard and many of the situations and jokes fell flat. I think the risk of overdoing these weird eccentric characters is that stereotypes could be emphasized. I guess I prefer things a little more subtle.

The other problem I had was with the writing style of the author. Sentences are clipped. Things sound more significant. But in the end it is harder for me to read. Clearly the author has a lot of love for Italy – at least the romantic one that we find in this book – and it was still an enjoyable story to read.

Next I am reading The Maid’s Secret by Nita Prose.

Summer Trip 2025 – To Africa

We are back in Japan after our summer trip. After spending the last few summers in Europe, we took a different approach and decided to visit the southern part of Africa instead. There were a few reasons: we were looking to escape the increasingly hot summers in the northern hemisphere, we thought it would be good to try some slightly more challenging areas before we got too old, and also because a cheap ticket showed up at the right time.

This trip was shorter than our usual summer trips, so we ended up packing it full of activities. As usual I wrote up a journal of how we spent our time and our impressions of what we saw. Over the next couple of weeks I’ll do my best to get these transcribed here in online form. 

Once again, these journals really serve as a way to preserve our memories and aren’t written with an outside audience in mind – but if you do have any questions feel free to let me know!

Day 7 – Johannesburg South Africa, Singapore and Japan

Despite the early bedtime Kuniko didn’t sleep well, and woke up with what looked like bug bites on her arm and leg. I slept in the same bed and was unbitten, so she was really getting the worst of it. It felt like our roles were reversed – usually if someone gets sick or bit it’s me. 

But we still went out for some coffee – there was a cool place called “Father” around the corner from our hotel. It looked like a cafe but evidently they changed to a wine bar in the evening, and the wines looked really interesting – too bad it was so early. Our cappuccinos were served in stylish mugs without handles – I liked the design!

Since we had a late flight out we arranged for a slightly later check out, with the plan to have lunch and then stay as long as possible in our room in a horizontal position. We did some shopping for souvenirs nearby, checking various shops and trying to balance between authenticity, resistance to high temperatures and weight. Getting good souvenirs is tough!

Our early lunch was at Proud Mary, a stylish place that was listed online as having South African food. I’m not sure about that, but they did have a beautiful bar and excellent wine list. We had arrived 15 minutes before lunch service began so we sipped drinks – a Semillon for me and a mimosa for Kuniko. That was her idea of staying healthy.

When lunch came it was really good – we focused on small plates and had eggplant fries, sea bass teradito, and chicken kabobs. The flavors here were intense but much better integrated than our last meal in Stellenbosch. It was a leisurely lunch – we sat by the window and watched people walking by – both inside and out. There were a lot of people walking with food delivery bags. Pretty much everyone in our restaurant was black except for us – and they had great music playing in the background. I enjoyed this place.

Finally we went back to the hotel for final packing and then we checked out. We did the reverse route of yesterday, taking the train back the way we came. At the airport we had lots of time so we played games on a bench, sent some messages and did some journaling. Kuniko was still coughing so she went to buy some cough drops to help with the long flights back. 

Finally we could check in, and so we waited in a short line to drop off our bag. The staff was surprised that we were going all the way to Japan with just one suitcase. She didn’t know that it was half full of souvenirs.

Again there was a very long line at security, but once we waited through that the immigration line was short. We had a snack at a restaurant that was located in a big window wing that overlooked the planes at the gate. We watched Rwanda Air and Turkish Airlines pull from the gate and take off – they seemed like they were going way too slow to get off the ground but as usual they did. We had a couple of wraps – one chili chicken and the other beef and onion – some fries, and glasses of wine. Our last chance for South African wine for a while!

On our flight to Singapore we had seats at the very back of the plane (guilt-free reclining) and in the window seat next to us a Korean guy talked to us a little. He seemed nice and I encouraged him to just wake us up if he had to run to the toilet. Later he ordered two quick beers with his dinner and then did indeed wake us up to escape. Despite that brief interlude we were sleeping a lot – I think I slept about 8 hours which is pretty impressive for economy class.

While landing at Singapore the Korean guy suddenly jumped up and asked us to let him use the toilet. We were on approach for landing and the cabin attendants yelled at him to sit down from their seats but he ducked into the toilet anyway. They were knocking on the door and giving him deadlines, but he was on his own schedule. He made it back just in time before landing – I thought he came close to getting arrested.

With a couple of hours in Singapore airport we had time for two proseccos at a Heineken sports bar (we later found out the two glasses cost more than 8000 yen!) and then we were boarding our longer flight to Japan. That was an easy flight and I spent most of my time playing games and listening to music. Kuniko got even more sleep in – which showed how tired she was.

Upon arrival at Kansai Airport we had a smooth entry – I got through immigration faster than Kuniko and our suitcase came out early as well. But then we had a run of bad luck. Our online customs form didn’t load correctly causing a delay while the officer decided what to do (he let us through eventually) and then as we left the customs area the two people in front of us decided to stop in the middle of the walkway to consult their phones and caused a temporary road block. We rushed around them but when we went outside our bus to Kobe had just closed its door. The staff outside turned and saw us, but then instead of stopping the bus he turned around and left, leaving us with 45 minutes to kill until the next (and last) bus. 

So we went inside and did the old beer/highball/Jagarico combo and killed time drinking and laughing while we recalled our trip. Eventually we made it to the bus and then on to Kobe. Kuniko ran into a former student who works for Peach Airlines, and we learned a new way to get from the bus stop to the train station. We just missed the fast train so had to wait another 20 minutes on the platform, and then just missed the last taxi at Nishi Akashi station. We arrived at home at 2 am – but luckily we had the next 24 hours all to ourselves to recover.  

As usual the summer trip was a success! This was a little different – shorter, more intense, more dangerous? But we made some great memories on this one and as usual we spent time during the trip thinking about next summer’s destination. We’ve got plans to head back to Europe – but before that we’ve got a trip to Australia and the USA planned – and possibly even an area that we’ve never been before.

Day 6 – Cape Town, Johannesburg South Africa

Thanks to our drunken escapades the previous night we were able to sleep in a little later. We went out to get some coffee, and found a nice cafe in the center of the waterfront. There were security guards posted on the corners, but as usual it didn’t look like they had anything to do but make people feel safer.

After our cappuccinos I thought it might be a good idea to see if I could get some new shoes at the shopping center next door – shoes my size are hard to get in Japan. We poked around but didn’t find any that I liked or that were in my size. I did find a tea mug that matched our set at home at the Le Creuset shop – in South Africa they make a color unavailable anywhere else: black. As we walked around we discovered that the pedestrian bridge over the waterway that we had been using was actually a sort of drawbridge – we needed to wait while it rotated out of the way to let a small ship go past – cool!

We had to wait a while to get our appetite and were hoping for some seafood, but all the restaurants were still serving just breakfast. After a few misses we decided to give up and grab something to eat at the airport instead. We packed up our room and went downstairs to check out of Radisson Red. No gin & tonics at checkout so we rolled our bag out the door and set off to the nearest street to hail an Uber to the airport. As we approached the street a security staff in a golf cart came up from behind us and commented that we looked lost, and asked where we wanted to go. She pointed out an area on the other side of the hotel that would be great for catching a ride, and after she left I realized that perhaps we had been walking in a dangerous direction. 

The Uber came quickly, and it was about a 20 minute ride to the airport. On the way we passed more “informal settlements” but it was really an easy trip. The whole time we could see Table Mountain looming above us – hard to believe we got to go to the top of it. 

At the airport we checked in to our domestic flight, and then had to wait for an especially long time at the security checkpoint. So many people – it was good that we were arriving early. We ate breakfast at another Mugg & Bean restaurant. Rather than coffee we had two (full) glasses of Sauvignon Blanc – served with a cup of ice cubes on the side. Kuniko had a mushroom pot pie and I had two sliders with fries. The staff who helped us at this place were super-friendly – there were so many nice people that helped us during the trip. 

After breakfast we waited at the gate and I had enough time to update this journal. Our flight was on Safair Airlines, which is apparently an LCC. Our seats were in the front row, so we were able to watch the flight attendants go through their routines. The air conditioner was releasing condensation right over Kuniko’s seat – she had some wet pants to deal with and the crew looked embarrassed and handed over tissues. The airline had a unique system where they asked passengers not to stand up after the plane stopped, and instead called row numbers to stand and leave in order. Since we were in the first row it worked out well for us, but hard to imagine this catching on for big international airlines.

At Johannesburg we took a bus to the domestic arrivals area, got the suitcase and then we were back in the airport that we had arrived in a week ago. It always amazes me that just a week ago felt like ages. I guess the more new experiences you pack into a day the longer the adventure feels.

We caught the train, called “GauTrain” from the airport to the downtown area where our hotel was. The system was smooth – we just tapped our credit cards to board – and the platform and trains were quite modern and clean. One surprise was the price – we paid about 2700 yen one way, which would get us a lot farther back in Japan. But I guess that is the price you pay for clean and safe transportation. Looking out the window we passed plenty of traffic jams and dodgy areas so while it was totally worth it for us, I’m not sure it was practical for locals.

We changed trains once at Sandton, and a nice man in that station pointed us to the train to Rosebank, our destination. It was just one stop on that train and we were there. When we arrived on the street level there were three security guards walking around the entrance, and then it was only about 100 steps to our hotel entrance – which also had a security guy out front. Those 100 steps were felt safe, but I did notice a long line of guys sitting on the side of the street watching us (and everyone else) go by. Annelize had put the unemployment rate of the country at between 20-40% (the lower number from the government and the higher number a more realistic estimate).

But the Rosebank area where we were staying was considered one of the better neighborhoods, and our hotel was in a sort of “zone” that was established for safe shopping and dining. It felt like an initiative of the government to create spaces where people could safely spend money and develop the economy on a small scale working upwards.

Within this zone – which we didn’t leave for the 24 hours or so that we spent in Rosebank – we felt perfectly safe and there were a lot of upscale stores and shopping to go with the hotels and accommodation. Our hotel, The Holiday Inn, was nice enough, and despite some trouble with their credit card machine we were allowed to check in to our comfortable room. The view was nice – parks and the parking area for Hop On Hop Off buses. 

Rather than go out for dinner we decided to do a picnic in our room. Kuniko wasn’t feeling great and her cold symptoms were continuing. Usually on our summer trips we pick a night to buy stuff at the local grocery store and enjoy them in our room. That way we can try odd items we run across. In this case we had the bottle of wine from Annelize’s winery, and we ran to the local Spar Super for some South African feta cheese, a smoked cheddar block, some roasted vegetables, crackers, yogurts, and a wine opener (that barely worked). We also had some leftover chocolates and ostrich biltong that we had been carrying on our travels, so we were well-stocked. 

This was a slow, relaxing evening and we went to bed early to give Kuniko a chance to recover.