We woke up the next morning with instructions from Vishnu and his wife to just sleep in, relax, and let the cook know when we wake up so she could make us coffee and breakfast. Vishnu and his wife were both off for some yoga in the morning, but we didn’t feel quite up to it and instead took our time waking up. It is vacation, after all.
It was a little strange to order coffee from the cook, but she brought out a freshly brewed cup of coffee and a bowl of sugar, and she watched how much I put in, and the rest of our stay she put in the same amount before she delivered it. Sharp lady. After a while Vishnu came home, and we piled into his car for a tour of town and to get some shopping out of the way. We needed to buy some omiyage, and thought we should do it sooner rather than later.
We went to a downtown shopping street which used to be the main street in Bangalore, but the incredible growth of the city had kind of left it behind. It was still busy with traffic like every other street in town, and just turning on to the street had us waiting at the turn for about five minutes before we could cut somebody off and get in.
Our first stop was a large grocery store, where we spent way too much time and only a little bit of money buying spices, souvenirs, snacks and other rare items that I hadn’t seen anywhere else. Ground curry leaves – yes. Mustard seeds – yes. Coriander powder – yes. In addition we got some ready made food packets to try later on, and also some hot sauces to pump up our curries at home. It was a big success.
It wouldn’t be a trip abroad if I didn’t come back with a couple pair of shoes in my size, and this trip was no exception. I scored some shoes for work, and a new pair of flip-flops. Great prices. We also stopped at a book store where I picked up the game Taboo – a great way to study English for my students.
It was close to lunch time but Vishnu wanted to take us to a new brewpub in town. Called the Biere Club, it served a couple of different kinds of beer, but the only one that was any good was the wheat beer. The staff seemed a little confused, but it was a good place to sit and chat, and we found ourselves there the next couple days as well.
From there it was back to Vishnu’s house for lunch of mutton curry, butter rice and flatbread. As usual, their cook did a great job and we could try some traditional southern Indian food. We took a short nap after lunch, and then it was right back out on the shopping trail.
This time Vishnu went off to do some work and his wife took us out. Her driver took care of the stressful driving, and dropped us off and picked us up at various locations. We started at an arts and crafts exposition that was selling traditional Indian goods, and Kuniko scored some hand painted bookmarks for her students. The guy selling them wanted to show just about every item at his booth, and it became pretty hard to escape.
Then we hit the backstreets of Bangalore, with Vishnu’s wife taking us to places we never would have thought to visit. At her favorite sweet shop we drank almond milk, we negotiated with a street vendor over the price over bangles, bought fresh roasted peanuts twisted up into a page of a magazine, and tried all kinds of foods that she recommended. Her mantra was, “This is very unusual – you have to try it”. With bellies still full from bowls of mutton curry and rice it was pretty hard work, but she was right – everything was great.
At one point we ventured into a very Islamic neighborhood, and stood outside a shop while she went inside to buy some supplies for her business. All around us were people wearing traditional Islamic garb, even women covered hear to toe in black. Everyone watched us as we tried to act casual outside the shop – I don’t think I’ve ever felt more conspicuous. There was a mosque down the street, and afternoon prayers began with someone singing over an intercom, and I think it was that moment when I realized that this was about as close to the middle east as I’m ever likely to get.
On the drive home while facing the usual traffic and potholes our driver slightly bumped a motorcycle that cut us off, and I was expecting everyone to stop and bust out the insurance cards, but other than an exchange of dirty looks nothing happened. Did I mention that traffic was unbelievable? I just couldn’t get over it.
We had a late night planned – so Vishnu urged us to take another nap to gather our energy. We took him up on it and dozed for an hour or two, and woke to evening prayers from a mosque a few doors down from Vishnu’s house. Apparently they were breaking their fast of Ramadan, and so there was a lot of people outside the mosque getting ready for a feast. It felt exceedingly foreign to wake up like that, with the street noise outside and being comfortable indoors. Those are the moments I love during a visit to another country.
Since Vishnu expected some heavy drinking that night he hired a driver to take us all downtown and back. We piled into the car and he took us back to the UB building in the center of town where we had lunch the previous day. On the main plaza we entered a nightclub called “City Bar” that was filled with singles and small groups talking and listening to loud music. We ordered some drinks but it was a little bit hard to keep a conversation going with the noise, so instead we kind of leaned back and drank it all in.
By chance we bumped into some friends and relatives of Vishnu’s, and so we decided to go upstairs to another club called “Sky Bar”, which was on the roof of the building. With an illuminated floor and a beautiful view of the city it was a pretty cool place to hang out. We drank and stood and listened to the techno music pumping through huge speakers. If we were on the ground floor I’m sure people would complain, but we were on top of the tallest building in town, and so there was no problem at all with noise, I guess. It kind of reminded me of a video game that I had played recently.
After several rounds of drinks we went back to down to the basement, and the driver took us to Vishnu’s cousin’s house, who was celebrating her birthday that night. The point of the party was to stay up until midnight and sing her happy birthday, so everyone was standing around talking, eating and drinking beer. The food was really good (with some dishes that we hadn’t had a chance to try yet) and it was interesting to find that there they had two Nepalese cooks working – they knew how to cook pretty well, too. After all this food both of us were at absolutely 100% stomach capacity, however. I had maybe one bite of birthday cake, and I felt like I was going to explode. It was a great chance to see someone else’s home and also to experience a home party in India. Everyone was really friendly to us, and they asked us questions about Japan and its culture, so we got to meet a lot of new people as well. Great stuff we’d normally never get a chance to do.
It was well after midnight before we got the driver to take us home, and then we kind of flopped on the bed and crashed out. I remember swearing that I’d skip breakfast and lunch the next day, but you can probably guess how that turned out.