{"id":890,"date":"2005-12-19T08:56:00","date_gmt":"2005-12-19T08:56:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/bryan.fredricks.net\/blog\/?p=890"},"modified":"2005-12-19T08:56:00","modified_gmt":"2005-12-19T08:56:00","slug":"how-i-got-here","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bryan.fredricks.net\/blog\/?p=890","title":{"rendered":"How I Got Here"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>We had a party after school with some of the ESS students.  At first they just wanted a party, and so I steered them into the idea of throwing a party for the other teacher responsible for ESS, Matsubara sensei.  <\/p>\n<p>Matsubara sensei is going to leave our school in a couple of days to have her baby early next year.  She&#8217;s going to take two years off on maternity leave, and then come back.  I was a little surprised that you can do that.  She gets paid for the first year, but the second year is on her dime.  At least she&#8217;ll have a job to come back to when she&#8217;s ready.  Very interesting.<\/p>\n<p>We gave her a card and joked around with her for a while, but the classroom was so cold that we couldn&#8217;t party too long.  I got the students out of there after about an hour, and in that time they had consumed an incredible amount of food.  Those girls can eat!<\/p>\n<p>Now I&#8217;m home getting ready to cook up a pot of nabe.  Kuniko took her car in to work today so that she could drop off the vegetables that we got from her father yesterday.  I&#8217;m not sure when she&#8217;ll be back, so I&#8217;ve got the house warmed up and dinner at the ready. <\/p>\n<p>These days life has been pretty good to me.  I was thinking of the harder times after I left the winery and took off to join the internet revolution down in Silicon Valley.  From that point until I walked off the job at RealCapitalMarkets in Carlsbad in 2002 things were pretty tough &#8211; financially, emotionally, you name it.<\/p>\n<p>Soon after leaving RealCapitalMarkets I took a who-cares part time job at Barnes &#038; Noble to try to make ends meet as long as I could.  At one point I interviewed for a web job at an auto parts place, got the job, and then told them that I would need three weeks to travel across the country with my good friend Brian Haven.  They told me that I couldn&#8217;t have the job after all, so I ended up spending a month with Brian Haven on the road &#8211; driving all over the map from the Pacific Ocean to the Atlantic  That trip was a defining point for me and somehow really opened up my ideas of what I could and couldn&#8217;t do with my life.<\/p>\n<p>My aunt and uncle helped me by putting me up at their place for most of a year while I sweated the interview for a job in Japan, and plugged away at my part time job.  In my off hours I hiked like a maniac &#8211; covering all the major mountains in San Diego and east towards the desert.  Each night we would eat big dinners and drink lots of excellent wine, tequila and beer.  Once I found out I got the job in Japan I spent time getting ready tying up loose ends for what I expected to be just one year in Japan.<\/p>\n<p>Since I arrived here, it has been non-stop adventure and I always feel like I&#8217;ve got the best job in the world.  No stress, but definitely a challenge.  I&#8217;m constantly working my brain over studying Japanese.  <\/p>\n<p>I was thinking the other day that someday I might look back at these three years on the JET program as the best of my life.  Then I wondered to myself &#8211; why does it have to end once my JET contract ends?  Maybe this is just the beginning.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We had a party after school with some of the ESS students. 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