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Reykjavik, Iceland

One of the things that I had heard about Iceland was that many people go there for the nightlife. Maybe because the sun is up for so long, or maybe it is the luxury lifestyle, but nightclubs are supposed to be big here. As it turned out, I heard correctly. We were on the second floor of our hotel, and now on then while we were sleeping I was awoken by noise from across the street. There was a nightclub nearby, and the euro beat and laughing and dancing was loud enough to disturb my sleep. It didn’t help that we went to bed so early, but despite all the noise we did manage to get enough sleep.

At this hotel we had breakfast included, so we went downstairs once it opened and had a light meal. Nothing special to report at this breakfast – they had the typical stuff like yogurt, cheese, cold cuts and coffee. They did have a sign advertising the local delicacy that we wanted to try – fermented shark – but we decided to look for it elsewhere. We got the coffee out of an automatic machine, and tried to wake ourselves up for some sightseeing.

We spent our morning walking two big circles around the town of Reykjavik. The weather was sunny, the sky was clear and blue, and the temperature was brisk but not quite cold. It was perfect weather for doing a lot of walking and we managed to see just about everything we wanted to see on foot. One of the most impressive sights was the Hallgrimskirkja cathedral, overlooking the city on the hillside. We arrived too early for it to be open but we took some nice pictures and enjoyed the solitude of being up there before the crowds. From there we walked down the hill to the waterfront, and got a chance to see the Sun Voyager, an artistic structure resembling a Viking ship on the northern coast of the city. We walked farther along the coast, breathing in fresh air and feeling totally refreshed, and came to the Harpa Amphitheater, a uniquely designed building that hosts major cultural events in town. It looked very modern against a backdrop of mountains and sea to the north. Occasionally a cruise ship or fishing boat would sail into town, and even these big ships looked tiny against a background as dramatic as the rocky shores of Iceland.

All this walking had us thirsty for a cold beer, but it was still too early for that. Instead we did another complete loop through the small town, this time stopping in at the places that were closed the first time. We went into the cathedral, and took an elevator to the top of the steeple for beautiful views of the city. The interior of the cathedral was rather plain white and they went with a simple theme, but the organ was huge and looked pretty intense. Speaking of huge organs, we skipped a visit to the Icelandic Phallological Museum, and instead went next door to check out the smallish food hall there. Unfortunately the food was mainly international dishes – nothing local that we could try out.

We stopped in at the hotel for a little break and then walked down to the harbor area to try to visit Sea Baron, a small little restaurant that serves only lobster soup and fish grilled on skewers. We had been by here the previous day but there had been a long line, so this time we arrived 15 minutes before they opened, and we were the only ones waiting. They were nice enough to open a few minutes early and let us in, and before we knew it we had two steaming bowls of lobster soup in front of us, with skewers on the way. The soup was really, really good. It was filled with big chunks of lobster and with a rich broth that made you use the bread they gave us to soak up every drop. The monster skewers of white fish were excellent as well – the fish was called “tusk”.

A little while after we arrived some Chinese tourists came in, and while they were waiting for their food they all looked at their smartphones in silence – it was a weird vibe. We finished up there, and walked to the end of the harbor to a local brewery, called Bryggian Brugghus, for a flight of all the beers that they make. They poured us six tasters of beer and we sat in comfortable chairs in the very stylish brewery bar and sampled them all. Of the six, we liked the English Ale and the Pale Ale, but they were all quite tasty. For the first time we were sitting and relaxing in a very modern atmosphere, listening to modern music instead of the 80’s pop music that had been following us around. I didn’t notice how often the 80’s music popped up until we sat there at the bar and heard the smooth hip-hop playing on their music system. It was a nice change of pace for us.

Feeling very pleasant and relaxed we walked back through town, past the Icelandic Punk Rock Museum, and started to look at restaurant menus in search of fermented shark. I had heard that it was one of those must try foods, and despite what you are about to read I’m really glad we tried it. One shop had an English menu out front, and sure enough the fermented shark was on there, so we went inside and grabbed a table. Working on the assumption that it would taste terrible, we also ordered a small bowl of mussels in cream sauce, and two Icelandic beers. The restaurant was a little on the upscale side, but they didn’t mind that we were taking a food challenge there.

Our beers and food arrived, and the first sign of trouble was that the fermented shark arrived in a sealed glass jar. I can’t recall ever being served food in a restaurant that was in a container you had to open. We prepared our stomachs, wrinkled our noses, and twisted off the lid. No big cloud of horrible smell came out, and my confidence briefly rose, but once you stuck your nose in there you got a slight whiff of something – ammonia? Sour fish? The chunks of shark were cut into cubes so it was easy to take a bite-sized piece. I popped a piece or two in my mouth, and at first you kind of brace for something terrible, but up front there isn’t a bad taste. And then suddenly, an intense ammonia flavor comes in, and spreads throughout your mouth, up your nostrils and down your throat. I chugged some beer to clear it but it takes some time – and that was just one little chunk. Kuniko also tasted it, and after a few more morbid bites we closed the container and sent the remaining five or six pieces back. Luckily the mussels were much better, and that was the flavor that was lingering on our tongues as we left the restaurant.

On our way back to the hotel we stopped in to look at the local branch of Flying Tiger – a store that began in Copenhagen that is similar to a 100 yen store but with slightly more stylish things. Their store in Reykjavik had some interesting stuff, and Kuniko almost bought some cocktail napkins decorated with crayfish, but I urged her not to buy them here as Iceland is so expensive, and our next city would be Copenhagen itself – it’d be much cheaper and easy to find. It turns out I was wrong.

For dinner that night we walked down the hillside like locals and went to a restaurant called “Messinn” which specialized in skillets of seafood. You choose the kind of fish, and then they cook it for you in a skillet with a various sauces and then add veggies along with it and serve the whole hot skillet to you at your table. We drank more Icelandic beers and Kuniko had a skillet of Atlantic char with a honey nut sauce, potatoes and greens, and I had wolf-fish with a nutty cream sauce and veggies. While we were there a foodie tour came through – a big group of people who didn’t really know each other and sat in a circle in the back of the restaurant – it was kind of cult-y vibe. They all did self-introductions while sampling some dishes, and then a while later they all left for the next restaurant. For dessert we had a chocolate cake with an excellent molten-like texture with vanilla ice cream, and I had an espresso to balance it all out. Yum!

Since we were planning on a very, very early wake up the next day we went and did a little shopping for snacks for the trip, and then went back to the hotel. I knew that we had to wake up at 2:00 am the next day, so I found myself in bed, with the sun shining through the curtains right into my eyes, trying to sleep. Finally, after what seemed like forever, I fell asleep, but was jolted back awake now and then by the nightclub next door – screaming, singing, broken glass. It was a rough night sleep-wise.

Ireland to Iceland

We went out for our usual coffee and breakfast, back again to the busy café that was much less busy this morning. We had a tuna melt with our coffees, then went back to the hotel to make the most of our room until we had to check out. Having a clean toilet and free Wi-Fi is a luxury you shouldn’t pass up while traveling.

We checked out of the hotel, and caught a bus to the airport almost immediately, right across the street from our hotel. We used bus route 747 to get to the airport, and this time we sat on the upper deck and enjoyed the views as we traveled. Around us the chatter of people was surprisingly loud – everyone was excited about traveling somewhere from the airport. It is interesting to see the contrast with Japan, where the bus is always silent going or coming from the airport.

I ordered one last Guinness at the airport while we waited for our flight at an airport bar. Next to us was an interesting group of nerdy people meeting for the first time judging from all the awkward pauses in their conversation. It was an international bunch of people, speaking English all with different accents, and I wondered if there was a technology or gaming convention somewhere nearby. Eventually we figured we had killed enough time at the bar and we went upstairs to the departure check-in lines.

Unfortunately there were no staff checking in passengers at our gate, and after waiting about a half hour one staff showed up and started working. Still, the whole plane was waiting in line, and at the rate she was working that one staff member wouldn’t be able to get us all checked in. About an hour later more staff showed up, but it was a very long wait in line and we were both glad we had a chance to get a drink before we started waiting. Security was also not so organized, and so my last impression of Dublin International Airport was not a positive one.

While waiting to board Kuniko and I worked on some snacks that we had accumulated during our travels so far – shamrock and sour cream flavored potato chips (not so shamrocky) and a package of choco-pies that were high in calories but low in satisfaction. Finally we could board our Iceland Air flight to Reykjavik and we got two seats right across from the boarding door. A guy in front of us went up into business class and then came back, telling the flight attendant that he bought a business class ticket but having no proof he had to sit with the rest of the schmucks in economy.

Iceland Air was a pretty stingy airline. Despite being a full-fledged airline (not a low-cost carrier) they were selling earphones to passengers (rather than giving them out like other airlines) and charging for drinks and snacks. It was only a couple of hours in the air so no problem, but still, pretty lame. One strange moment came when the door was closed and then suddenly someone from outside started knocking on the plane door, so they had to re-open it. Apparently someone was missing from the roster, but they confirmed they were onboard, and then the closed the door again.

Another odd thing was the flight attendant’s fold down seat was positioned right next to mine, and since she was facing the back of the plane it was an awkward sort of situation were eye contact was unavoidable. I thought I should ask a question to break the, uh, ice, so I asked about the bus tickets available for sale on the plane. I had bought some online but I was wondering how much they were on the plane to see if I got a good deal. The flight attendant didn’t know the price, but promised to find out for me. Later she gave me the information and sighed loudly and actually rolled her eyes when I said I didn’t want to buy the tickets at this time. Like I said – awkward! But it was kind of cool to sit up near the front of the plane and see all this drama that we usually miss in the back.

It was just a two hour flight from Dublin to Reykjavik, Iceland, and the line at immigration was quite short. Our suitcase was already on the carousel when we got there, and we went outside and got right on our bus that I had online tickets for. It is a long way from the airport to the center of town – about 45 minutes – so the bus was essential. It was still expensive, about $30/person each way. Despite the high price, the bus wouldn’t leave until it was completely full. Our full size bus had five open seats, so we had to sit and wait about 20 more minutes until another flight came in, and then we got our five people and we could go.

The drive from the airport to the city center was like a bus trip across the moon. The landscape quickly became desolate and empty, and the odd shaped rocks and lack of plants really contributed to a kind of “other world” feeling. As we traveled northeast from the airport the ocean was on our left, a calm sea of dark, deep blue. On the right were ridges and rocks cracked and pushed together and emptiness as far as we could see. It would be a fun place to go camping if you wanted to get away from it all.

Eventually we came closer and closer to civilization, and then into the city of Reykjavik. Buildings were made of different stuff here – less stone and more wood, with some shops but a big difference from the strip malls of suburban America. The bus dropped us off at the central bus terminal, and from there we were separated into smaller groups and taken by mini-bus to a bus stop close to our hotels. Apparently the city banned buses inside the city center, so the mini-buses drove around the outside and left us as close as possible to our hotel. It was actually pretty close, though – we walked just a block or two before we could check in to our hotel, the Hotel Fron.

Our room in the hotel was big, and nicely designed in a Scandinavian style. To reach our room we actually had to open a side door in the hotel and walk across a balcony to another building, which was kind of odd. Still the room was comfortable and we were excited to be in Iceland. We were also pretty hungry!

So back out into town and on the prowl for something to eat. Our first impression of town was a quaint city square, kind of like the touristy part of Sonoma, but all traffic on foot. The streets were lined with shops, some classy, some touristy, and it was clean and felt safe and comfortable. I had a couple of restaurants on my map that we could try for dinner, but as we walked across town we eliminated them one by one, for various reasons. This place looked too touristy, that place looked too fancy, another place had a big line of people. As we got hungrier and as we walked more we got a little more impatient to eat, and finally we settled on The Lobster House – an historic restaurant perched on the hillside near the downtown area. It was a beautiful building, and we checked the menu and it seemed like the food would be good. We stepped inside and could tell right away this place was upscale, and we probably weren’t dressed for it.

An alien-like female staff member came up and asked if we had reservations and we said that we didn’t as we looked around at many empty tables. She left to check with someone to see if she could seat us, and Kuniko was starting to have second thoughts about the place. After a long time the alien lady came back and said she could put us at a table, and we sat down in a small dining room situated in between the main dining room and a back room filled with a large family group that was speaking a combination of Spanish and English. Our server gave us some bread right away (I guess we looked hungry) and combined with a glass or two of red wine the “hangry” feeling went away and we started to enjoy the experience.

For dinner we started with a plate of Icelandic delicacies (their term): horse meat carpaccio, cucumber jelly, Atlantic char, and thinly sliced whale raw whale meat with beet and seaweed. Maybe a challenge for some people but coming from Japan it was all food we’ve had before and they did a great job with the ingredients. Kuniko’s main dish was excellent – a cod fillet served on lentils with a tomato and carrot lasagna, Mine was a homerun – bacon-wrapped mutton stuffed with dates on a hazelnut sauce, mushroom ravioli, candied carrots, and three lobster tails on the side. It was one of the best dishes of the entire trip – we were eating well! We were afraid that the price would be really expensive, and since all the prices were in ISK instead of dollars, yen or euros, it was kind of hard to guess, but in the end it wasn’t all that expensive compared with eating at a nice restaurant in Japan. Our server was much friendlier than the alien-like being who had seated us, and she kept up conversation and gave us a free round of drinks to be nice. I left a cash tip after Kuniko paid by credit card, and learned later that tipping isn’t a custom in Iceland. Oh well! It was a mind-blowing meal, and we left in a state of food-euphoria.

After dinner we walked around a bit as the sun was still out (and it stayed out for most of the night), and we bought some Icelandic yogurt (called skyr) and some water at a local convenience store, and there went back to the room to get some rest. Changing countries is always exciting and today was a good day.

Dublin, Ireland – Day 3

Once again we got up on the early side, this time to arrive in time for an appointment for entry to the Trinity University’s Library. Long ago I had seen a photo of the “long room” in the old university library, and it looked beautiful. I was hoping to see it for myself. We ate a quick breakfast of coffee and a blueberry muffin served to us by a couple of chatty middle-aged ladies working at a café. It was surprising to see all the commuters walking to work today. Yesterday was a public holiday and so the streets had seemed empty, but today we were walking around during the morning rush. I noticed that there was a very heterogeneous mix of races in Dublin, even more so than what I remember from big cities in the USA.

The university campus is active and open to visitors, so we spent a little time walking around and seeing the sights. It felt a little like going back to school, except that no actual university students would be up this early. There was already a tour group waiting in line outside the library when we arrived, and the tour conductor was telling story after story to his captive audience. His tour group seemed hesitant to ask questions, and I could tell the tour conductor was starting to sweat as he ran out things to talk about. Right after we lined up behind that tour group another tour group lined up behind us, so we were sandwiched between tourists. Once the doors opened up, the advantage was ours as the tour guides wanted to show all the preliminary exhibits to build up to the old library, but we could head there straightaway. The “Long Room” of the University Library was impressive, indeed. We had the room to ourselves for just a little while, and I tried to make the most of the silence. The bookshelves stretched a long distance, decorated by marble busts of famous university graduates. In the center of the room some particular documents were showcased in glass. We also got to see Brian Boru’s Harp, an historical harp that apparently wasn’t actually Brian Boru’s, however the legend kind of followed the harp until it was generally considered true.

We left via the gift shop, and had some good laughs looking at the photos of the fashion models wearing each piece of Trinity U. apparel. One particular model was featured prominently, wearing an afro and a smile (both huge) in each picture – we loved that he looked nothing like a fashion model and was clearly enjoying his job.

For one more traditional Irish dish we had to go get a full Irish breakfast at Gallagher’s Boxty, a breakfast café located at the heart of the cobblestone streets of the Temple Bar area. I ordered a pint of beer to make the breakfast even more hearty. The full Irish breakfast was similar to the full English breakfast we had eaten during previous trips. There was bacon, eggs, sausage, white and black pudding, a roasted tomato, and (the reason that we had come here) boxty – a kind of potato pancake. Kuniko had a lighter meal of avocado toast, but we were damn full by the end of our brunch. While we ate I had a nice view of a pub across the way, and a guy sleeping under some cardboard boxes in the alley next door. The pub owner came into work, saw the sleeping guy, and a few minutes later a policewoman appeared and rousted the (hungover? homeless?) guy onto his feet and had him moving down the way. We did see quite a few beggars/homeless around Dublin during our short stay.

The rest of the afternoon we did a little shopping around town. Kuniko bought some warmer clothes for Iceland at H&M, and we also bought some cheese at Sheridan’s cheese shop which had been closed the previous day. The cheese shop was located in a fairly nice part of town – lots of expensive shops and hotels around. The cheese wasn’t that expensive at all – I bought some Irish creamy blue cheese and it was only 2 euros for 100 grams. I would have to pay ten times that in Japan for high quality cheese. While we were out we also walked through a nice park, Saint Stephen’s Green, to get a little nature into our day. The weather was threatening a bit so we went back to our hotel but again found our room uncleaned as of yet. Once again we went down to the bar to spend a little time. I drank an apple cider (since I don’t get many chances to drink cider in Japan) from a company called Orchard Thieves, and Kuniko had another Roe & Red. By the time we wrapped up at the bar our room was cleaned so we had a little cheese picnic in the room and then took a nap. Peaceful days like this are why we call it a vacation!

In the evening we decided to walk around and look for a place for dinner. To start, we walked in a completely new direction, and I kept my map in my pocket. In this new area, north of the Dublin Spire, we found lots of churches, and many grungy-looking apartments. All over Dublin we found graffiti, especially some we liked featuring a little masked-man luchador. Just like any big city there are some bad parts of town, and we had found one that day. It didn’t feel dangerous, just a little run down.

And then suddenly, a big crowded area of brand shops and shopping malls opened up in front of us. It wasn’t the usual kind of place we like to hang out in our travels, but it was fun to look at what a shopping mall is like in a different country. The mall was pretty crowded, so I guess economically things are going well. In the supermarkets we found abnormally large areas selling freshly baked cakes and sweets, and I noticed that pork was especially cheap in Dublin. The cheese selection at the average shop was much bigger than we’d see in Japan, so another reason to be jealous. As we left the shopping area a surprisingly talented older man was doing a street performance of old show tunes while dancing around. He had a good-sized crowd admiring his performance as we passed by.

For dinner we decided on a place called The Winding Stair. It is located above a bookshop (owned by the same people) and looks out over the River Liffey and Ha’penny Bridge. We arrived too late for lunch and too early for dinner, but the guy said he didn’t mind giving us a table as long as we ordered a couple of dishes to go with our wine. The atmosphere of the place was light and airy, full of distressed old dark wood, with an extensive bar in the corner. We were the only customers at that time – some people tried to come in for just drinks but our staff turned them away because they needed serve food (legally, I guess). We ordered some wine by the glass, and then three appetizers (that were the size of main dishes in Japan). The first was local crab with butter made into a spread and served with Irish soda bread and a green salad. The second appetizer was a creamy seafood chowder, with generous chunks of salmon, scallop, bacon, and some mussels floating around inside. And the third dish was duck leg meat pressed cold into blocks with cherries, pistachios, capers and pickles. All three dishes were excellent, and thanks to the size and variety of dishes it was the best meal of the trip so far.

Eventually we finished up our meal and headed back to the hotel, only stopping once at a small (low budget?) market called “Iceland” to buy some rhubarb yogurt and snacks. There was a security guard standing in the front watching everyone going in and out, and helping the cashiers now and then when they needed something. Once again we had lots of steps – this time 20,229.

Dublin, Ireland – Day 2

I think I first wanted to visit Ireland back in the mid-nineties while drinking Guinness with Brian Haven in Murphy’s pub back in Sonoma. Two of the servers were Irish and had great accents, and we used to throw darts and drink round after round of Guinness, and I thought that someday I’d like to see where this kind of pub culture came from. It took a while, but here I was in Dublin 25 years later.

Kuniko and I finally got out of bed and started our first full day in Dublin by venturing out in search of coffee. A couple of blocks away from our hotel we found a place that was open, so we walked inside to find a chaotic scene. Apparently there was a big rush on coffee, and one of the two baristas working was in training, and so there was a lot of stress in the café. We waited quite a while, and we finally ended up with one latte instead of two, and a pastrami cheese roll that was pretty good. The trainer barista acknowledged the mistake and gave us another cup of java, and we finished up as the line for service grew longer and longer. Kuniko cleaned up our table after we bused the dishes back to the counter – apparently that isn’t a thing in Ireland because some people gave us a funny look as we left.

One thing we learned quickly in Dublin is that pedestrians cross the street when they think they have a chance. There are crossing signals for pedestrians but they are hopelessly long and so everyone just runs across when they see an opening. It was a little startling at first but soon we got used to it. The city has thoughtfully provided writing on the street for the pedestrians that says “Look left” or “Look right” depending on the traffic flow. I do think that some people distracted by the phones probably get hit more often than in other cities – it looks dangerous. In the end we got used to things and started dashing out into the streets along with the locals.

Our first appointment of the day was a tour of the Guinness Storehouse. I had made some reservations in advance, and so we walked across town to go check out the tour. On the way we stopped in at St. Patrick’s Cathedral. The cathedral was as beautiful inside as it was outside, and they had made the interior tourist friendly with plenty of educational materials to explain exactly why each religious icon or design was special. It is one thing to see a stained glass window, but they had explanations to the side that clearly showed the significance of some of the details, and it helped to appreciate things more. The gift shop was really big – bigger than most I’ve seen in churches in Europe. They had some extremely cheesy goods, and I thought at the time that it was an oddly blatant crossing between consumerism and religion.

The Guinness Storehouse is not the brewery (which is at a separate facility down the street) but instead a huge complex built to showcase the beer, educate the visitors, and sell lots of Guinness goods. The design of the facility and the quality of the tour is top-notch. The way it is designed is that you start on the ground floor, and slowly work your way up via a series of escalators, learning more and more as you go. There are several tastings along the way that we enjoyed, with some good-natured fun poked at Americans by the staff. The final stage is a pint of fresh Guinness at the top floor which is a circular bar room enclosed in glass offering a dramatic view of the skyline of Dublin. The place was busy but not packed when we reached it, and it nice to have a beer and enjoy the view. There was a big group of Chinese tourists visiting at that time, and they moved as a pack and were making friends with some of the white (European?) tourists. Many pictures were taken all around, and when we left the place was just starting to fill up. On the way out we stopped in the gift shop for a couple of souvenirs – we were good customers.

From the Storehouse we headed east back toward the center of town. On the way I had hoped to stop at a highly recommended fish and chips place, but it was closed for the summer holidays. We instead stopped at another pub, the Boar’s Head Inn. If you want traditional food, pubs are the way to go in Ireland, and there’s one on almost every corner – open all day long. We had a some good fish and chips there, and also a bowl of Irish stew that hit the spot. Everything was heavy – much heavier food than we usually eat, and this was only the beginning of a long trip. While we were out we went to check out Dublin Castle, but what remained of the building wasn’t too exciting, so it was a short visit. When we returned to our hotel our room wasn’t cleaned yet, so we visited the hotel bar which was surprisingly nice, and sat at one of the back tables to drink, write in this journal, and relax. I had a Rockshore Lager that was simple but delicious, and Kuniko had a cocktail called Roe & Red. It was based on Irish whiskey and it was tasty, even with a big cinnamon stick stuck in the glass.

Eventually we went back out on the town, first to check out a cheese shop (closed because it was a “bank holiday”), and then we found our way to Klaw, our choice of restaurant for the evening. Klaw is a seafood place, and I had heard that they had plenty of lobster on the menu. We arrived a bit early for dinner, and they were only serving drinks and oysters. We ordered some prosecco and reviewed the menu, but the service was quite slow. One of the things about visiting Europe is that it takes a little time to shift our expectations on service speed – things are much more prompt in Japan. I don’t mind the slower service, but it does take a little getting used to.

We ordered up some food, starting with some oysters. Due to a miscommunication during the ordering process we received a couple raw oysters and a couple that were “blowtorched” at our table. The torched oysters had some spinach, cheese, butter, and garlic melted together over them, and then we ate them cooked. The raw ones were also good – from the Galway coast. We also had an order of crab on toast that was great. Unfortunately the lobster roll was mainly roll, and not much lobster. That was the only culinary disappointment of the day. After dinner we walked through the Temple Bar area, kind of a historic pub/tourist area, passed a strange building on the backstreets with a sign saying, “Turkish Social Club”, and then eventually wandered back to our hotel to head to bed. We finished the day with about 27,000 steps!

The Longest Day – Osaka to Dublin, Ireland

Because we were so excited about our summer trip we woke up a bit earlier than usual, at 4:15 am, and started prepping the house for the two weeks that it would sit empty in the summer heat. We’ve got a comprehensive checklist worked out by now, so we knocked out the tasks quickly. We rolled out with our suitcase into the humidity and headed to the train station, already sweating even before sunrise. Taking the first train out of Okubo, when we arrived at the bus line in Sannomiya it was surprisingly crowded. We elected to take the second bus, avoiding having to sit in the extra capacity center seats that are both uncomfortable and solitary.

The result of our early start was that we arrived more than three hours before our departure. Usually the departure check-in lanes are posted on the board about three hours before the flight, but for some reason there was a delay in posting our flight on Singapore Airlines. For a short time there was a little tinge of fear that we had arrived at the airport on the wrong day – or that I had misread an email or something. But in the end we found our way to the check in line, and thanks to our online check in we could skip much of the waiting.

Our first leg was a 6 1/2 hour flight to Singapore – piece of cake. We slept a bit on the flight, and the video system was a newer model and filled with interesting movies and music to keep us occupied. Upon arrival at Singapore’s Changi Airport we had a fair amount of time (7 hours!) to kill before the next leg of the journey, so we set about exploring. The airport had recently completed a new expansion, called “Jewel”, but unfortunately it was located outside security, so we’d have to officially enter the country, and then leave the country and go through security all over again if we wanted to visit. We figured we’d save Jewel for the return trip. Instead we focused on a search for the salted egg steamed buns that I am so addicted to. Just after entering the transfer area we saw a restaurant with a big electronic sign that flashed a sexy picture of a salted egg bun breaking open, and so we went right over and sat down at the table. Upon consultation with our server, we discovered that they no longer serve the salted egg buns and we’d have to find something else on the menu. Rather than waste a chance, we left the table and moved on.

We are picky about food, so it took a while to survey the food choices of nearly the entire airport. We stopped for a cold beer at a “sports bar” located in one of the terminals, and had an IPA made by a craft brewery in Singapore. It was easy drinking (although expensive) and it gave us the energy to keep up the food search. While we were drinking our beers at the bar a customer came in and after reviewing her options on the draft beers she ordered the same thing we were drinking, although she said, “I’ll have an E-pa”. It took me a second to realize that she was pronouncing the “I” as an “E”, but the server didn’t even flinch and served it up to her right away. It would be hard for me to resist the education opportunity here but the server was a real professional. Kuniko and I were joking about “E-pas” during the rest of the trip.

Finally we discovered a restaurant that served mini-sized salted egg buns, and so we ate those with some Hong Kong-style noodles. We washed them down with another beer at a brew-pub. Kuniko had a Singapore Sling, mixed up by a cool lesbian bartender/DJ who was very friendly and intently focused on choosing the next song to play in the bar.

Back on an airplane, and this time for a long haul. The flight from Singapore to Amsterdam was 13 hours or so, and I was eager to get some shut-eye. We had a cabin attendant that was really pro-active about customer service, and we heard her say to another passenger that it was her first flight. True or not, she made sure to wake me up every time she walked past with a hot towel, food, drink, extra blankets, whatever. Let me sleep!

Because it was a long flight I couldn’t sleep through all of it, but thanks to the great video system we kept ourselves entertained. I was in a middle seat between Kuniko at the window and a fairly aggressive old guy who was made extra effort to dominate the armrest between us. He also had the “old guy smell” which wasn’t pleasant but I hated to think what I smelled like after the distance that we’d come from Japan.

Finally, we arrived at Amsterdam airport. But even after all that travel, we still had one more flight to catch. We waited for about four hours in the airport to catch our KLM flight to Dublin. Since our next flight was on a different airline we had to claim our suitcase, and then bring it back in through security. The KLM area at Amsterdam airport had an interesting self-check baggage system, where you had to wait in line to use an automatic machine. The machine apparently broke down quite a bit – about half the windows were shut down with notices saying it was out of order, so it took a long time to get rid of our bag again. But these kinds of situations are exactly why we left a four hour window for this stopover – tight connections mean more stress and risk. We had a premium tuna sandwich and some red wine, did some shopping for souvenirs (they had lots of cheese available at the airport shops – that was a good sign), and then caught our flight to Dublin.

After a 13 hour flight a 2 hour flight feels like a blink of the eye. I watched from the window as we flew over English and came in on approach in Dublin, Ireland – our final stop for the day. The immigration line was very short, but there were surprisingly many questions: “Where did you come from?” “Where are you going from here?” “How many days in each country?” “Why are you traveling to Ireland?” Usually there are hardly any questions at all so it was kind of refreshing to experience.

We picked up our suitcase and went outside to catch a big double decker bus into town. Just as we got on the bus it started to sprinkle, but the rain stopped soon after, and by the time we got off near the Busaras Station 30 minutes later, there was a clear sky above us. We checked into the Beresford Hotel right across from the bus station, and went up to our room. What followed was one of the best showers I’ve ever taken. Hard to believe that we had been traveling for more than 24 hours!

Off we went to see about dinner. It was late afternoon when we arrived in Dublin, so we went to Madigan’s Pub, a place I found recommended on the web which wasn’t far from the hotel. We ordered a couple of Guinness beers, and I had a bacon and cabbage plate, which was a very heavy but delicious meal. Kuniko went with the somewhat lighter salmon sampler plate. It felt good to be relaxing in a pub – the interior was very traditional with wood paneling, a copper gilded bar, and (strangely) 80’s American pop music on the music system. People came and went outside to smoke, and the group in the back of the pub was lively. We sat in a booth up front, drinking our beers and feeling exhausted.

After our meal we decided to walk around a tiny bit and get a feel for the sightseeing that we might do later on. We did get in a little walk, but quickly our energy levels faded so we went back to the hotel and went to bed around 4:30 pm. It was great to lie down in a fully horizontal position. We didn’t stir for about 13 hours – it was one hell of a travel day.

A Northern Circle

Tomorrow we are leaving for a couple of weeks on a summer trip. We’ll start with a flight to Singapore, spend some time at the newly improved Changi Airport, and then take a long flight to Amsterdam, followed by a short flight to Dublin, Ireland.

The trick is all that will happen over a period of 24 hours so we’ll be pretty whipped by the time we have our first Guinness.

The rest of the trip will be in a big circle through Iceland, Denmark, Germany and back to Amsterdam in the Netherlands before heading home on August 16th or so.

As usual I’ll be taking pictures and keeping a journal, so look to this space for an update once we get back and get settled!

A Week in Maui

Pictures from this trip can be found here.

During the middle of July every year I get a few days off as my company shuts down to help the city government conserve power during the brutal heat of Japanese summer. It is a perfect excuse to get away, as most other companies are still open and we can avoid the high prices of peak travel times.

This year we found some cheap tickets to Hawaii, so we arranged to stay with Susan and Dave at their place in Makawao. It had been seven years(!) since we had been to see them.

The flight was on AirAsia, direct from Kansai airport to Honolulu, and then it was a short flight to Maui and we met them at the airport. They both looked great, even though Susan was suffering from a cracked rib after a mishap while testing Sir Isaac Newton’s theory.

Our agenda for the trip was mainly just to relax, eat, drink and spend some quiet time. We went to the beach a few times, and even got to see a big sea turtle relaxing on the beach behind Mama’s Fish House.

Since Susan and Dave love good food just as much as we do, the eating was good. We went out to Pita Paradise, Poi by the Pound, and Maui Brewing Company (two different locations).

We also had some great food at home, with Susan putting on a big southern-style shrimp boil (so good), her Persian rice recipe (so delicious – nicely balanced salt, acid, heat and fat), and a nice batch of grilled fish with Susan and Dave’s friends the Talleys. One day Kuniko and I put together some suigyoza (dumplings in soup) for dinner and everything was washed down with plenty of good beer and wine. It was like a foodie paradise that week.

No visit to Maui would be complete without a trip to see the murals painted by local artists, not the least of which was the beautiful one painted by Alex and Joey. It was impressive how the painted murals really livened up an otherwise plain downtown area. We also had a chance to lay down on the roof and watch the stars, take a long morning hike with Dave around the countryside surrounding Makawao, and did some shopping at Costco and Target with Susan. She also turned us on to great noodles at Sam Sato’s – which turned out to be one of the culinary highlights of a very culinary-focused trip.

By the end of the week we were sorry to say goodbye. We’re hoping that it won’t be seven years before our next visit, and hopefully soon Susan and Dave will come visit us in Japan so we can repay the favor.

Backstreet Finds

For most of the last week Kuniko has been off in Paris for her business trip. While she has been away, I’ve used my newly independent status to go exploring more deeply in some areas of Kobe and Osaka that I rarely visit.

On the weekend I went into Osaka to check out the restaurant supply shops in Douguyasuji, near Namba. On previous visits I poked through the surface level, but this time I really went digging through the kitchen tools there. I delved into the back rooms, the second floors, and the basements in search of a few key items. Ultimately the trip was successful, and I brought home a really nice crepe pan that I put right into use on Sunday. I also got a small hand-size roller to make dumplings more easily, a carbon steel ladle to use for making egg wrapper dumplings over the flame of the stove, and some containers to hold fermenting kimchi. Big success!

Also, I looked through various spice and gourmet shops around Umeda but I didn’t get everything I was looking for – none of the stores I searched had two (admittedly obscure) ingredients: dried Persian limes, and Le Puy green lentils. I can find them online but the shipping charge is almost as much as the items themselves, so I’ll have to wait.

Sunday was spent making crepes and egg dumplings, and the highlight was struggling to flip the crepes in the air and catch them on the pan again. Unfortunately some crepes didn’t have a safe landing and further practice is necessary.

Yesterday after work I went exploring in the tiny Korea town near my workplace. The Nagata area has a small Korean population, and several Korean restaurants and shops. It is nothing like the size of Korea Town in Osaka, but it is close by and fun to walk through. However, this time I was looking for Vietnamese restaurants.

Recently there have been more and more Vietnamese people coming to Japan to work under a limited work program. The Japanese government is not calling it immigration (sensitive topic) but most of the Vietnamese people are screened through organizations in Vietnam and then dispatched to work in Japan, most visibly in local convenience stores which are understaffed due to the falling birth rate here.

One of my students mentioned recently that he walked by a Vietnamese restaurant on the way to our company, and so I did a quick Google search and found four(!) nearby Vietnamese restaurants. A few years ago there were none, so Korea town seemed to be evolving. Yesterday I went to check out the situation on the ground.

The first stop was a small restaurant on the south edge of the Korea town area called Koha Quan, and it was open with three young men working the restaurant. There was a Vietnamese lady waiting for a take out order inside, but otherwise I was the only customer. I had bun thit nuong, cold rice noodles with grilled pork, fresh herbs and a chopped fried spring roll. It was damn good, and with a splash of hot sauce I was totally satisfied. I could eat more, but I still had three shops to go. The staff was friendly and spoke a little English, and when they rang up my bill all the employees came up front to watch the guy operate the register.

I was feeling pretty happy as I left the restaurant but unfortunately my luck turned because the next two restaurants were closed. There were no hours posted, but one Vietnamese lady who was sitting inside one of the restaurants told me that they are open based on reservation, and so probably the local Vietnamese people call up and arrange dinners now and then.

The final place turned out to be not a restaurant but a Vietnamese grocery store, with a big selection of goods from Vietnam and some from China and Malaysia. The lady working there was quite young and very talkative. We spoke in a mixture of English and Japanese and she was so friendly (maybe I was her only customer of the day) that I ended up buying a bunch of rice noodles, spicy dried beef and some spices to help her out. The place wasn’t jumping on Tuesday afternoon, but I wanted to help support an influx of unusual food products into the area.

With that, I had surveyed the scene, so I went back home and finished my dinner with a little homemade kimchi and a strawberry smoothie. The heat is building here and combined with the humidity of the rainy season things are getting uncomfortable.

Luckily Kuniko will be back tomorrow, and a few days later we’ll catch a flight to Hawaii and get some R&R. I can’t wait!

We Ate Well

For the last few months there has been a constant comment we share on Mondays, usually while sitting down to a simple cabbage salad. The comment is some variation of, “Wow – we ate well last weekend!”

In my quest to challenge my kitchen skills and catch up with ingredients I should have been cooking with long ago, I’ve been trying new things in the kitchen. Kuniko is also cooking great foods when she gets the free time, and combined with the seasonal veggies available at the market, the fresh herbs in our garden and the warm sunny weather – our weekend kitchen has been a culinary wonderland lately.

Kuniko has access to some great breads, cheeses and other gourmet goodies every day near her workplace in the heart of Osaka. I’ve been playing with the produce available at the local supermarkets – and really diving deep to try new and strange (to me) ingredients.

The result has been very good eating. Then we settle into a simple menu for the week, and reset our appetites to build up for the upcoming weekend. This balance has worked nicely for us, and we’re both learning a lot about food and cooking.

Can’t wait to see what looks good at the market next weekend!

Golden Week 2019

This year the string of national holidays called Golden Week in Japan was one day longer, giving us ten full days off. As usual we avoided making any travel plans, because Golden Week is a holiday for almost everyone in Japan, and so the airports, train stations and highways are crowded, and ticket prices double (or even triple).

Surprisingly, our little town of Okubo was pretty quiet during the holidays – apparently many people went elsewhere and so we kind of had the town to ourselves. The first half of the holiday was cloudy and rainy, so we spent most of our time inside catching up on several years’ episodes of Game of Thrones. We cooked and ate very well, and took care of housecleaning and other chores.

The second half of the holiday had much better weather which we took advantage of right away. We did loads and loads of laundry, washing the cold weather stuff like blankets and jackets, so our balcony was always full of clothes drying in the sun. We sat out back on the patio several days sipping prosecco or margaritas (for Cinco de Mayo), and we also walked around town exploring some new places.

We dropped into a mysterious karaoke/pub that looks like someone’s house down the block from us. Called “Koume” (little plum) it was like visiting your grandmother’s house. The living room was where we sat, and the lady cooked us “ham egg” and sliced up some tomato to go with our beers. I don’t think we’ll be back but we did satisfy our curiosity. In addition to the usual walks to the beach we made a long walk to Nishi Akashi on the backstreets to try a Korean restaurant and a Chinese restaurant that looked interesting. The Korean place was pretty good but a little overpriced for what we got. The Chinese place turned out to be great – full of weird people (staff included) but with some great nikuman and tantanmen (spicy noodles). I definitely think we’ll go back there in the future. On the walk back home we stopped at a small taiyaki restaurant for dessert, and also picked a roadside tofu shop to do some shopping as well. We were buying from locals and supporting the local economy, so that felt good.

On our last Friday of Golden Week we hosted Yoshi, Mamiko and Akira for some burgers and sausages out on the grill. We spent a nice evening with them talking about food, travel, and the future, and we made plans to go to another beer festival with them this month. They are such nice people!

Golden Week was a success, so now we are starting focus on losing the weight we likely gained during the holiday and getting back into a work routine. We won’t have any more holidays until July, and the rainy season is coming up. Time to get back in shape!

Seeing Ashika Again

Last night Kuniko and I traveled to Sakai city in the south part of the greater metropolitan area of Osaka, to meet the wife of an old friend from India.

Ashika and her friend Geeta were wrapping up a week-long tour of Japan with a group, and had decided to stay an extra day to explore some of Japan at their own pace. We met them in Sakai near their hotel and took them to a nearby restaurant to eat traditional Japanese food and talk about their trip, their family, and their experiences in India as well as other places – they were both quite well-traveled.

I first met Ashika’s husband Vishnu 27 years ago when I moved to Fresno to prepare to attend courses for my bachelor’s degree in enology (winemaking). I had arrived before the start of the semester to settle in and get to know the area. Since it was between terms there weren’t many students around. The university had one dormitory open to house people that wanted to stay during the holiday break, and so I got a room there rather than spending too much on a hotel.  The dormitory housed a handful of students, including international students who didn’t plan on flying all the way back to their home countries.

Vishnu was living  just down the hall from my room, and it turned out that he was also part of the winemaking program so we already had a starting basis for our friendship. I soon discovered that there wasn’t a lot going on in Fresno, and thanks to Vishnu I was introduced to other members of the enology program and had a chance to see more than I would have otherwise.

Since he was ahead of me in the program he graduated ahead of me and went back to India, and since this was sometime in the early 90’s it was a little hard to keep in touch. But Vishnu managed it, calling me all the way from India to wish me a happy birthday, and he even sent me a picture of him and his new wife dressed in traditional Indian clothing at their wedding.

With the advent of Facebook communication was much easier, and it was through that medium that Kuniko and I organized a trip to India to visit Vishnu in 2011. Vishnu and his wife Ashika hosted us at their home in Bangalore for a few days and showed us around their rapidly growing city. We met their kids for the first time and really enjoyed our stay thanks to them.

So it was with great pleasure that we could sort of return the favor, at least a little, by having dinner with Ashika before she flew home. I was getting over a cold so I wasn’t at the top of my game but we still had good conversations and they were brave enough to try some foods that even we don’t normally eat very often. Ashika had brought a handmade bag filled with masala for our cooking, and we sent them back with a little box of goodies made in Akashi, where we live.

As I write this Ashika and Geeta are flying back home via Malaysia with their bags packed with souvenirs from the trip. We really enjoyed seeing Ashika again and we’re hoping that we can also get Vishnu to Japan sometime soon. We’re thinking how fun it would be to visit them again in India, or maybe meet them in another country nearby and travel together.

On Shoes and Olive Oil

There I was, standing in front of the local import food store’s better-than-average selection of olive oils, feeling a little intimidated. Thanks to my education and work background I am perfectly comfortable in front of wine bottles lined up on shelves, but olive oils are a completely different thing. I am perusing the extra virgin olive oils, but even within that category you can select oils from Italy or Spain, and then you must sort through terms like “cold extracted”, “press filtered”, “fruttato” and “dolce”, words that are apparently used somewhat loosely throughout the semi-regulated olive oil industry. The prices also add to the feeling of risk – with some oils costing over $40 a liter. It is probably not a sign of rational thinking to blow that much money on a little bottle of olive oil, right?

If I allow my gaze to drop to the lower shelves, much cheaper options beckon. There, extra virgin olive oil is sold in larger plastic containers, and the prices here are at a much more palatable $6-7 per liter – about one fifth the price of the top shelf oils. There are even lower priced options as well, if you are prepared to abandon the olive and get your oil from another source.

The weird part of this story is that the only reason I am even looking at that top shelf of premium olive oils is because of what I’m wearing on my feet while I shop – a comfortable pair of black leather business shoes.

Rewind to fifteen years ago, when I moved to Japan from California with a big suitcase of clothes to get me through a year of teaching English overseas. As that year stretched into a longer and longer stay in a foreign country, it meant that I needed to do my clothes shopping locally. Shirts, slacks, jeans, underwear – all of it was easily available, even for my larger than (Japanese) average body. The challenge was finding shoes in my size. I wear a size 13 in the US (size 30 in Japan) and the fact was that shoes in Japan (even made by foreign companies) maxed out at about a size 9 (roughly a 27 in Japan size).

Obviously shoes are an essential item, and I needed a reliable source, pronto. Any time I visited another country, I’d buy a bunch of shoes in my size, and bring them back to Japan to wear in my daily life. I got into a cycle of bringing back a bunch of cheap shoes that would wear out pretty quickly (especially in the hot, wet Japanese summers) and then I’d need to buy more. I didn’t go overseas often and I wanted to maximize my opportunities with as many shoes as possible and that meant buying shoes at reasonable prices. It just made sense to look for a great price because I figured I’d always be a high volume shoe buyer. I expected the shoes I’d buy to break down soon because my whole life I’d been buying cheap shoes and the idea of a shoe lasting longer than a year was completely (a-hem) foreign to me.

But a few years ago I found a pair of business shoes in Japan that happened to be my size. My wife and I were shopping at an outlet center (outlet shopping has become a very successful import from America) and found some size 30 leather business shoes, stashed in a pile of other boxes in a dusty corner of a shop. Clearly they were not selling in Japan and had been sent off to the outlets to try to get rid of them. After trying them on I bought them and started wearing them to work the next day.

After the first week or so of loosening up the shoes were quite comfortable, and so I stopped thinking about them. For more than a year. And the year after that. It was only after several years that I noticed the soles of the shoes were wearing down, but every other part of the shoe was still in great shape. I took them in to a shoe shop and had them resoled for about $15 and they gave me another year of comfortable wear. They finally had to be retired after more than three years of almost daily use.  

Obviously this turned the way I thought about shoes on its head. I searched in vain for another pair of leather shoes at the outlets, but Japanese people’s feet hadn’t grown significantly since my last visit and there remained little demand for the size 30’s I wear. However I put in an order with my parents and had them send out three pairs of leather shoes from America, and by rotating these I’ve been able to move beyond shoe-related worries and to think about why I had continued to self-import all those suitcases of cheap shoes over the years. Maybe, in fact, cheaper is not always better.

One of the cool things about living in another country is that it is an opportunity to see some cultural points that are hard to notice when viewed from inside the bubble of life in your own country. Now I could see how saving money and getting a good deal were so hard-wired into my way of thinking in America. Of course that isn’t a bad thing and many times that kind of thinking will serve you well, especially over the long term. But by stumbling upon this forgotten pair of size 30 shoes I had also stumbled on a blind spot in my thinking – sometimes it is fine to spend more money to get good quality.

Naturally this revelation made me think more deeply about other things that I cared about. Was there some other area in my life that I’d been low-balling that could be improved with a slightly larger infusion of money? Of course, the first thing I thought about was food. We buy it almost every day, there are lots choices out there, and it is one of the things that gives us the most happiness every day.

I started small – by buying some quality fruit now and then (previously I considered all fruit in Japan to be overpriced and therefore a waste of money). Fruit in Japan is consistently very high quality, and almost unnaturally beautiful. Where does all the asymmetrical or bruised fruit go? Only rows and rows of bright, fresh, colorful (and expensive) fruit line the shelves. The question was whether the enjoyment I got out of the fruit was worth the extra thousand yen ($10) a week I was spending. After enjoying a bulging orange “decopon”, an enormous human head-sized pomelo, and mangoes, papayas and dragonfruit, the answer was yes – it was totally worth it.

Recently I read a book about a couple who bought a house in Spain and started growing their own olives, which led me to think more deeply about olive oil, which in turn led me to standing in front of the premium olive oil section that I described at the beginning of this story. I selected a small bottle of Italian olive oil labeled as “fruttato”, took it home, and poured a healthy dose of the golden liquid into a spoon and tasted it straight. And I realized I’ve been missing out on what olive oil could truly be. We always buy the big jug of cheap olive oil for cooking (and still do) but using a little premium olive oil to have with bread, to top a salad or use on popcorn instead of butter – it was a whole new way for us to enjoy food.

The lesson here was not to go spend more money on everything. The lesson for me was that I need to rethink some of the views that have been ingrained in me and see where I might make some small improvements. A little more money has made a huge difference for my feet and for our dinner table. I’ll try to keep my eyes open for other areas to improve.

Herbal Remedy

The seasons are starting to change and we’re starting to think about cherry blossoms and new students. April brings with it some very different weather, more time outdoors, and unfortunately for some people, hay fever. Luckily Kuniko and I seem to have avoided it so far, and hopefully we can keep that streak going.

This weekend we’ll have two days off together, for the first time in a long time. I’m not sure exactly what we’ll be doing, but if the weather complies we’ll probably do some gardening outdoors. Last year I kind of let things run their course outside and this year I want to get things in shape. A few weeks ago I cleaned out the old crap laying around outside our house and pulled out a couple of uninteresting and unproductive plants that weren’t really doing anything for us. I also cut back the monster bush of rosemary that was getting ready to knock on our door and move in.

We’ll be planting herbs (cilantro, thyme, dill, oregano, mint) and hopefully some of those will be able to stick around for a few years. The cilantro is a one season only project, but we certainly eat enough of it that it would pay off to grow it ourselves. This will be a learning experience and I don’t expect that everything will make it, but if even half of the herbs survive I’ll be happy. Hopefully we can turn our black thumbs green this year.

Gratitude

Something new – a guest post from my mom! Recently she mentioned that I hadn’t blogged in a while so I offered her a chance to write a guest blog, and she did a great job! Here is her post:

In June of 2003, Ray and I went to Los Angeles airport and saw Bryan off on what we thought would be a three year job/adventure teaching and living in Japan.  He left belongings in storage and in our attic.  Little did we know that he would find the love of his life and decide to make his home permanently there in Japan.

When he was first in Japan, we had limited ways to communicate with him. Not knowing what he was doing, how he was feeling, was he sick or well, happy or homesick was a real challenge for a mom to deal with.  We finally found a long distance phone plan that wasn’t too expensive.  The first month our phone bill was over $200 when the plan didn’t kick in right away.  After some time, we were able to figure out the time differences and managed to talk once a week if he was home when we called.  I don’t remember what his phone situation was at the time, but we didn’t want to run up a big long distance bill on his phone, so we tried to call.

The other way we got news from Bryan was his decision to keep up a blog every day.  This was something new for us, but since day one of his blogging, I have been so grateful to him for writing almost every day, for his writing skills, and for his desire to have a written record of his time in Japan.  The blog has kept us informed, kept me from worrying so much about what was or was not happening to him, and did provide so much insight into his life there.  The blog was where we also first heard about Kuniko.  In 2005, Kuniko became our daughter-in-law and we first visited Japan.  

Over the years, we have become resigned to the fact that they will always make their home in Japan.  We have been lucky enough to be able to visit them, meet a lot of their friends and family, and to make new friends ourselves.  Knowing how much they love each other, we are grateful that he has such a loving wife to share his life. They have a wonderful circle of people to give them love and support.

Now, after he has spent almost 16 years in Japan, I have to say that I am so grateful for the amount of changes made in the technology and communications industry.  Instead of waiting for one day a week to talk to Bryan and Kuniko, if I think of something I want to tell them or a question for them, maybe a book or movie recommendation, news about a friend, I just text on my cell phone (trying to always be aware of the time difference) and I get an answer right away.  The immediacy of that answer is so reassuring.  It has made a world of difference when there have been earthquakes and other disasters to be able tohear right away that they are alright. Blogging, texting and messaging, talking on the cell phones, facetime, skyping, even sending pictures back and forth…all have made the world a smaller place for me.  For this technology I am very very grateful.

Tales of an Oyster Addict

For one reason or another, we have eaten a lot of oysters this season. We often went to Akashi and bought oysters from the fish market there, as a reward for walking all the way to Akashi. The oysters this year were especially delicious, and recently over dinner at a Vietnamese restaurant we told Mamiko and Yoshi all about our oyster addiction. They turned out to be pretty big oyster lovers themselves (who isn’t?), and they wanted to get in on the oyster mania – we figured we could squeeze one more oyster party in before the end of the season. We arranged a date to drive out to the coast west of Himeji and buy a bunch of oysters to bring home and cook up at their house.

Yoshi and Mamiko came by car on Saturday morning and picked us up. The weather was beautiful and unseasonably warm, and we packed a few bottles of cold prosecco along with some craft cheese we had shipped in from Okinawa into the back of their car to enjoy later at their house. Then it was a matter of making the hour or so drive to get the oysters. We were delayed by a bit of traffic we finally got to the Tatsuno area, and then drove south over the hill to a beautiful coastline. Previously we had been out to Ako which is a little farther west, and it had a similar feel. We drove past several small isolated fishing villages that seemed to be based on the oyster industry – it made me wonder what everyone does during the off season. I think it might be fun to spend an evening in one of these villages, grilling oysters with the ocean in the background and maybe visiting a few local pubs. I don’t know about the hotel situation, but one of these days I’d like to come back and spend some more time in a place like this.

Yoshi drove us a bit farther along the coast to a shop that they had visited before. We parked the car and went inside to look around. There was a funny moment when Kuniko noticed that Mamiko and I were wearing the exact same colors – an unintentional wardrobe match.

The oyster place was a combination of store, restaurant, and a to-go food stand that had an old lady busy frying oysters for people to eat right away. Around back was a wharf area that looked like it is much busier in the morning. We walked a little around the wharf area and then went back to do our shopping. Inside we ended up buying five kilograms of oysters, ten big scallops, and a small bag of medium-sized clams. The oysters were surprisingly cheap at 900 yen per kilogram, and the size of the oysters was pretty big – bigger than ones that we had earlier in the year.

Once we had loaded our shellfish into the car we drove on down the coast, to another tourist shop selling local vegetables, seafood and snacks. Because it was around lunchtime there were a lot of customers and it was some sort of miracle that we could find a parking spot across the street. Inside we lined up to buy some tofu, some manju, and a few other snacks that we could have as side dishes for our lunch.

From there it was back home on the highway, and luckily there wasn’t any traffic for the return trip. We talked together on the ride home, and Kuniko and I were in a pretty good mood with oysters and prosecco on the menu. We giggled and laughed at each other’s jokes on the ride home, and it made the time fly by.

Back in Tarumi we unloaded our goods and fired up the hot plate, and then got the party started. As usual Mamiko had prepared lots of delicious side dishes – chopped onions, lemon juice, ponzu sauce, soy milk, and a smoked salmon salad that was refreshing. We also broke out some of the Okinawan cheese and introduced it to them for the first time. Once the food and wine was flowing, we really started to relax and enjoy the afternoon.

It was interesting to see the way they cooked the oysters – we often put our oysters directly on the grill and let them pop open, but they put their oysters on the hot plate, and steam them with a cover to get them to open up. Some of the oysters were a little shy, but once we got them open they were really big! As usual the oysters were best without any special toppings – straight off the grill on the half-shell. They were probably the best oysters we’ve had this season, and I was glad we could enjoy them with good friends.

After a while Akira came home from his school club activities, and joined us in this sort of hedonistic ritual of oyster eating. He was just as interested in the cheese, and I think it was a hit with him. We hadn’t seen Akira for a long time, and he was looking more and more like a young adult. He was a little more talkative this time, and so it was fun talking with him a bit.

In the early evening we started to slow down – having eaten enough shellfish to feed an army – and so in the end we had Mamiko call us a taxi and we went back to the station to get a train home to Okubo. It was a really nice lunch/dinner and during the evening we decided to get together at our house in the near future. Yoshi, Mamiko and Akira are a lot of fun to hang out with and we’re looking forward to eating and drinking together again soon.